Sexual Harassment at the Christmas Party – stop a crisis occurring

Wow where did 2018 go?  Christmas is just round the corner and its that time of year for celebrating with work colleagues – yes its the office party or office lunch is on the horizon.

Sexual Harassment

Did you know that around 52% of women have experienced some form of sexual harassment at work.  The Christmas Party can present a daunting prospect?

Workplace parties and events are notorious for facilitating unwelcome sexual attention and predatory behaviours, predominantly from male colleagues. Over the past few years, there have been a number of high profile sexual harassment cases come to light such as the Harvey Weinstein sexual harassment case.

One in five of calls to the Equal Opportunities helpline are about complaints of sexual harassment, with 40% of complainants being male.  This is despite the widely perceived perception that women are the usual victims.

The introduction of alcohol does change the perspective of employees who might behave impeccably whilst sober and at work.  It is a known fact that alcohol affects our judgement and inability to rationalise our behaviour.  Hence, this results in boundaries becoming blurred (as well as our sight) and wrongful actions being taken.

Duty of Care

The question is – Do employers really need a policy on workplace social events?  The simple answer is YES. Employers have a duty of care towards staff and need to maintain a policy and deliver best practice both in and out of work.

As a result, it’s advisable to issue a communication to staff to remind them that the Christmas party is an extension of the workplace and their conduct should reflect that.

The communication must be aligned with the company policies on bullying and harassment and equality and diversity to ensure employees are aware of their boundaries.

Furthermore, whilst you can prepare and train staff, it’s difficult to control behaviour at the party itself. Other than banning alcohol, which is likely to stop half of your employees from attending, it can be difficult to manage on the night.

There is a balance between being a Christmas kill joy and allowing a free for all but it’s still possible to have fun as long as staff are prepared and trained.

At the end of the day, employees are adults and are expected to behave as such.  In addition, there is a need to respect each others’ boundaries whilst still enjoying the spirit of the season.

How to avoid the Christmas party crisis  – Some key tips:

1.      Ensure staff are aware of the company policy on harassment , equality and diversity

2.      Issue a communication regarding your codes of conduct in relation to the policies and the impending Christmas party.

3.      Make staff aware of the consequences of inappropriate behaviour and how it would be dealt with.

4.      If you see an altercation occurring at the party – have a quiet word in the ear of the person who potentially could be the harasser.  This can prevent a situation from crossing the line into something more serious.

5.      Follow up from the word in the ear in office hours to ensure that there are no concerns arising from the situation.

6.      Remove any mistletoe so there is no temptation for lecherous lunging in an office

7.      Have a great Christmas – event free!!!!!

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